I,ve Learned

1. I've learned tht no matter how thin u slice it, there r always 2 sides..
2. tht itz takin me a long time 2 b'cum d person I want 2 b..
3. tht itz a lot easier 2 react than itz 2 think..
4. tht u shud always leave loved ones wid loving words. It may b d last time u c them..
5. tht u can keep goin long after u think u can't..
6. I've learned that v r responsible 4 what v do, no matter how v feel..
7. tht either u control ur attitude or it controls u..tht learning 2 4give takes practice..
8. tht there r people whu love u dearly, but just don't knw how 2 show it..
9. tht money is a lousy way of keepin score..
10. I've learned that my best friend & I can do anythin or nothin & have d best time..
11. tht sometimes d people u expect 2 kick u when u'r down will b d ones 2 help u get back up..
12. tht sometimes wen I'm angry(wich i generally am not) I have d right 2 b angry, but that doesn't give me d right 2 b cruel..
13. tht true friendship continues 2 grow, even over d longest distance. Same goes 4 true love..
14. tht just coz some1 doesn't love u d way u want them 2, doesn't mean they don't love u wid all they have..
15. I've learned that maturity haz more 2 do wid what types of experiences u've had & what u've learned frm them n less 2 do wid how many birthdays u've celebrated..
16. tht u shud never tell a child her dreams r unlikely or outlandish. Few things r more humiliating, n what a tragedy it wud b if she believed it..
17. tht ur family won't always b there 4 u. It may seem funny, but people u aren't related 2 can take care of u & love u & teach u 2 trust people again. Families aren't biological..
18. tht no matter how gud a friend some1 is, they'r goin 2 hurt u every once in a while & u must 4give them 4 that..
19. tht it isn't always enuf 2 b 4given by others. Sometimes u have 2 learn 2 4give urself..
20. I've learned that no matter how bad ur heart is broken, d world doesn't stop 4 ur grief..
21. tht our background & circumstances may have influenced who v r, but v r responsible 4 who v become..
22. tht sometimes wen my frenz fight, I'm forced 2 chooz sides even wen I don't want 2..
23. tht just coz 2 people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. & just coz they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do..
24. tht sometimes u have 2 put d individual ahead of their actions..
25. I've learned that v don't have 2 change frenz if v understand that frenz change..
26. tht if u don't want 2 4get somethin, stick it in ur underwear drawer..
27. tht u shouldn't b so eager 2 find out a secret. It cud change ur life 4ever..
28. tht d clothes I like best r d ones with d most holes in them..
29. tht 2 people can look at d exact same thing & c something totally different..
30. I've learned that there r many ways of falling & staying in love..
31. tht no matter d consequences, those who r honest wid themselves, get farther in life..
32. tht many things can b powered by d mind, d trick is self-control..
33. tht no matter how many frenz u have, if u r their pillar, u will feel lonely n lost at d times u need them most..
34. tht ur life can b changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know u..
35. I've learned that even wen u think u have no more to give, wen a fren cries out 2 u, u will find d strength 2 help..
36. tht d paradigm v live in is not all that is offered 2 us..
37. tht credentials on d wall do not make u a decent human being..
38. tht d people u care most about in life r taken from u 2 soon..
39. tht although d word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used..
40. I've learned that it's hard 2 determine where 2 draw d line between being nice & not hurting people's feelings & standing up 4 what u believe..

Isn't it ironic

Isn't it Ironic

that when you have so much pain in your heart

the only person you want to talk

and can make you stop crying

is exactly the same person who made u cry????...

Something About Life :)

Sometimes people come into your life,
and you know right away that they were
meant to be there... to serve some
sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or
help figure out who you are or who you
want to become. You never know who
these people may be but when you lock
eyes with them, you know that every
moment that you are with them, they
will affect your life in some profound
way.

And sometimes things happen to
you at the time that may seem horrible,
painful and unfair, but in reflection
you realize that without overcoming
those obstacles you would have never
realized your potential, strength,
will power or heart.

Three Simple Words :)

Three little words can make a difference in one's life. There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the saying of just three words.

When spoken or conveyed, these statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

I'll Be There:
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feelsto hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person isthe greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in loveand friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Beingthere is at the very core of civility.

I Miss You:
Perhaps a friendship could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed,desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your friend in the middle ofyour workday, just to say "I miss you."

I Respect You:
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk toyour children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies to all inter-personal relationships.

Maybe You're Right: This phrase is highly effective in diffusing anargument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe yourright" is the humility of admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it.When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement theother person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to furtherexplore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to getyour view across in a more rational manner.

Please Forgive Me:
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, follies and failures.A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong,which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he wasyesterday.

I Thank You:
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don'ttake daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand,people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do nothave the attitude of gratitude.

Count On Me:
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, agood friend is there indicating you can "count on me."

Let Me Help:
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without beingasked, they pitch in and help.

I Understand You:
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any relationship.

I Love You:
Perhaps the most important three words that you cansay. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs; the need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your family, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words. "I love you."

Do I Love U??

Do you know what it is like to look up into the velvet night sky, and yet not see the stars? Do you know what it is like to see the song birds sing their sweet music, and yet not hear their sound? Do you know what it is like to feel your heart inside you, and yet not feel it beat? Do you know what it is like to be in a crowd of people smiling, laughing, sharing their love together, and yet be all alone with no one around? Do you know what it is like when the light of your life has been extinguished, and you are left in absolute and complete darkness, frightened and alone? Do you know what it is like when the one you love so deeply and dearly is so far away? Your heart cries out their name and yet there is no reply.

All you want to do is hold them in your arms, and you cannot. All you desire to do is to kiss them, and you cannot. You long to hear their soft sweet voice as they whisper words of love to you, and you cannot. You just want them near, and they are not.

Their absence brings with it frustration and sadness. You curse God that you cannot be with the one you love, and yet you thank him completely for bringing that person into your life, all the while knowing that no amount of dreams and hopes and prayers, can, at once, change the situation - the situation that is in the hands of the God that you curse.

So, what do you do in such times? How do you keep your wits about you? How do you maintain some semblance of normal life, when all you can do is think about is the person that you are so in love with and that you would do or give anything just to be with? You feel lost somewhere between the cruel reality of life, and the dream-like fairytale that you wish to live in, and the only salvation is to be found in the arms of your beloved and that cannot happen.

Friends cannot comfort your soul. Thoughts only make the pain in your heart worse. What do you do? You think about them - oh my God, how you think about them endlessly! You pray to God for the strength to see it through this situation, knowing that someday you will be with that person forever. But is that enough? No. Not always. Until you are in their arms, nothing really helps.

The mind is a whirlwind as your thoughts are tossed around like matchsticks in the wind. But the one thought that is all constant and eats away at the core of my soul is a simple one: "When will I hear from you again? Will I ever hear from you again?" Such silly thoughts are these. But time can cause such thoughts to occur. It is only human. I am only human.

And so, I wait. For how long? Only time and God can tell. And as I wait it seems as though the hands of the clock move in reverse instead of forward. Each second that passes seems as an eternity away from you. Time takes you further away from me instead of bringing you closer, and time is something that is beyond our control.

Oh to be an angel, and have wings that I may fly into your arms at this very second. To taste your sweet kiss and feel your warm embrace. To love you, to have the pain of needing you, vanish in your arms, as would snowflakes on a summer day. And to know that we would at last, be together for all our days. Days spent lost in sweet heavenly love, such as we have never known.

Oh God, my dear, how is it that love can be so wonderful, and yet hurt so badly? Such pleasure in knowing and feeling your love for me, and such mortal pain in being apart from the one that I love so deeply, so dearly, so passionately.

Dear there is an old saying that applies to being away from something. It goes, "Out of sight...out of mind." But, my love, every "old saying" has an opposite meaning. In this old saying it is also said, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder," and just when I think it is not possible to be more in love with you, a second ticks off the clock, and I discover that I am more in love with you then ever before.

Thoughts we need......

in life there are moments when we miss someone so much ..that we wish

we could grab them out of our dreams ..and hug them tight ! .. ©

when a door closes, another opens, but we often stand there so long ..

looking at the closed door ..that we do not see that one that’s opened..

“do not look at physical appearances, they can be deceiving ..

do not look at riches, for they are only temporary ..”

we should look for someone who makes us smile ..

because sometimes it only takes a smile to brighten up a very dark day ..

we should look for someone who makes our heart sing .. ©

dream what we want to dream ..go where we want to go,

but we should always try to be who we really are ..

because life is short and often only gives one chance to do things ..

i know .. in life we need a lot of luck to feel good ..

many trials to reman human ..

lots of hope to become happy ..

often .. future depends upon the necessity to release the past ..

we cannot move forward in life unless we learn from

our past mistakes .. and so .. we move on ..

this what we should share with people whom we really care about ..

LIKE I JUST DID WITH YOU

with those who make us smile when we really need it ..

with those who make us see the positive side of everything ..

just when we hit rock bottom ..

with those whose friendship we care about ..

whom we can’t do without ..

“but even if you don’t share this feelings with anyone .. don’t worry ..

nothing bad will happen .. BUT ……

you just wast the possibility of brightening up someone’s life for a day ! ..”

because life is not measured with the quantity of breaths we take ..

but with the quantity of moments that took our breath away ! ..

so hang in there baby !! ..keep an eye out for the adventures that
await you ..

always remember that life is beautiful …… and so are YOU